Saturday, March 28, 2009

小女的幸福星期天

快到三點了

我不想睡覺

可能下午睡到太舒服了

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最近一直在903聽到

Kay《港女的幸福星期日》

很好聽 歌詞也是很生動

eric kwok + wyman

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看看我自己的星期日又是怎樣的呢

有一點霧的星期日早上

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我的宿舍後面的美麗公寓

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八點了 決定去跑步 

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繼續前進

 

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圖書館外面

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回來了 宿舍外面的高級住宅

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我的午餐, steam sandwich, 很像在享用high tea

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看了一個由鄭丹瑞阿旦主持的節目 Home Sweet Home

訪問了林海峰林曉峰林珊珊三姐弟 還有他們的父母

很不錯的節目

過後坐到床上去繼續看

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化腐朽為神奇

 

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我的床單在外面享受日光浴

 

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Ms Elle… 我的電腦 Stan 也是睡午覺

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我也是要睡午覺了…

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下午茶糖水 chinese barley…

 

港女的幸福星期天 / 謝安琪

並無驚喜 不必太傳奇  

任由新地 隨便到沒禁忌

凡事志在興起 平淡卻是最美

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Friday, March 27, 2009

The Not So Worth It Skirt

first of all,

a caution to every lovely reader

who is currently reading till this line

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this post is not about my crazy shopping again

this is something serious

something relevant to economics

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today is kinda special

but i don’t know why is it so

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went jogging again in the morning

didn’t go to the library in the morning

slacking in the room

do some assignments

and trying out my dresses, haha

had a nice nap in the afternoon

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and suddenly felt like

wearing skirt to school today

for the entire 8 months in NUS

I have never worn a skirt to school before

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the reason being is troublesome

arts faculty is hilly,

quite a lot of staircase to climb    

i always sit crossed-leg

(the meditation way) in class

sometimes a leg even stretched

across to the chair opposite

in the library (the kopitiam way)

underneath the table of course

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today i wore this skirt to class

and on my way back 

I was thinking about my pretty dresses again

oh my god I am so obsessed with them

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then my thought was diverted

back to the skirt i was wearing

this skirt I got from Padini

it cost me something like rm 100,

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gosh i was horrified by this thought

can’t you see the link?

this simple skirt can buy me 4 cheaper dresses…

which four, see here

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the opportunity cost is 1:4

and this is not even something branded

it is just a new arrival at Padini

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i want to clarify that it’s not that

i would not support made in Malaysia

i would not buy from Padini anymore

i wanna show off i can afford a rm 100 skirt

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rather the main points here are

i have grown through my shopping journey    

i have learnt to apply economics theory in life

i have came to accept that it is not necessary to buy branded stuffs all the time

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even though i myself doubted

i would not buy any branded stuff again

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i got quite a lot of treasures

to bring back home tomorrow

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why do i have to bring everything home?

show it to my dear family

have already showed them the photos

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let my sis pick one of the dresses

she can have it, i don’t mind

but i doubt my own generosity

i will give up the black one i guess

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will hang them in my wardrobe nicely

a nice warm welcome to them

to my wardrobe before i wear them    

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will try them out again

in front of the big mirror and

experiment with different mix and matching

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this is also an issue of accountability

i have the responsibility not to

hide from my parents on

how i spend my pocket money    

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will wash them thoroughly

and expose them under the sun

before i wear them

i can imagine how wonderful it is

to see 6 dresses hanging

swinging to and fro under the sun

especially my summer dresses

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p.s. 

sorry mom

i never intend to give you extra work

i will wash them on my own

can’t you see,

i am a prudent, wise consumer.

i used to be wise too

but now wiser than ever….

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cheers

my Padini Authentic mini skirt

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image 

it’s 9 hours actually

i am going out at 7am

things i have to do within

the 9 hours before i leave

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wash my MNG sweater

i know bout 60 earth hours

but i gonna leave my fan on for 2 days

otherwise my sweater will stink

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mop the floor

this week observed less hair on the floor

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pack up my treasures

expect difficulty to fit them all in a bag

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pack up the other usual stuffs

list already compiled

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finish watching Big Winter Melon 12

it ain’t loading well now

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have a decent hairwash and thorough blow-dry    

enjoy a cup of Milo

and lastly to unplug Ms. Elle

forgot to unplug her twice

and she got dehydrated

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Thursday, March 26, 2009

Confession of a Dress Addict

I am here to tell a real life story

finished Maths quiz

feeling quite good actually

cause can manage the quiz and the class exercise

and weekend is around the corner

the best part is I am going home

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today nothing attracted me

or tempted me to go shopping

on my own initiative

went to the science foyer

“”let’s go see where there are nice clothes"

“I regretted I only got 1 dress last week”

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wow, $10 dresses again

wait, lemme go withdraw money first

I thought I shall keep as little cash in my purse

to avoid shopping

but apparently this doesn’t work

since the ATM is just 10 steps away

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Rationale to get four dresses

my sis birthday is near

she said if I spot nice clothes

I may buy for her

if she doesn’t want any

I CAN KEEP FOR MYSELF

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couldn’t find something like these

back in Melaka

will keep my hands off shopping for

a very long time (I doubt)

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exam is near, need extra motivation

I hardly go out to shop (which is quite true)

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practicing what I have learnt from Becky

global warming

we should go for simple dresses

the dresses can be transformed into

semi-skirts too

mix and match with some tops

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can make good use of my piling tank tops

but i gonna get some white simple shirt

i don’t have any

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good substitutes for Roxy

which cost rm200 or even more

Roxy dress X

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loots of the day

beige flora baby blue flora plain blue mini plain black mini 

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Loot Summary of the Week

 the blue-black-white 6 dresses everything

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Conclusion:

I am a dress addict already

6 dresses in a week

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Monday, March 23, 2009

Reunion of Summerlicious Ripples

haha haha

today Ripples is here again

grabbed another pair of the stripe one

pink colour

that day pink one only left 2

didn’t look very nice, a bit faded

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today there are quite a lot

lovely lovely

tomorrow i gonna try wearing

if comfortable

I am going to grab two more pairs

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advantages of buying two pairs

collection makes me feel proud

can wear different colour on each feet

just spoilt my nose sandals 2 weeks ago, back up

ori price is $15.90, so much discount

 0350

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when I are buying same design of an item

of different colour

then I realize

I am having a bout of Shopping fever….

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how much I have bought within these few weeks

* pants

* dress

* perfume

* flip flops

* more dress

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but all are great bargains

I’m unlike Becky

Saturday go back home

hope can go shopping again

nothing beats shopping at a familiar place

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Saturday, March 21, 2009

我愛你

我愛你 / 盧廣仲

雖然起初我覺得他有點 nerd

很搞笑

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但是他唱這首歌

幾好聽下的

可能我會從此像喜歡方大同這樣

開始欣賞他?

I dunno…

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我愛你 / 王菲

買點就是她花很久沒有出新歌了

這首歌不是最新錄制的

我第一次看林夕寫這麼短的詞

但是無論什么詞

王菲唱就是這么有魔幻感覺

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我愛你 / S.H.E.

原曲 美國女子組合 Sweetbox

More Than Love

我記得我曾經跟同學講過

這首歌很好聽

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記憶中

我很像從來沒有講過 S.H.E. 的歌好聽

第一首《戀人未滿》還 Okay 啦

起初感覺蠻特別的

就是Ella獨唱的部份

有嘗試聽她們的歌

陶吉吉作曲的《落大雨》

但是還是不是怎樣

就除了這首

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Ella 你怎么這么 man

但是我最喜歡你的聲音

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你會用哪裡一種方式來說我愛你呢?

盧廣仲的激昂?

王菲的瀟灑?

S.H.E. 的悲情?

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p.s.

凱雲同學很久沒有聯絡了

我記得你很喜歡王菲的

我們幾時再聊音樂聊八卦?

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Thursday, March 19, 2009

A Wave of Ripples

Today

boring Thursday

a not going-home weekend

finished Maths lesson at Science

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saw a few girls carrying Ripples bags

Erm, told Abi

I wonder if there is any Ripples sales downstairs

she said ripples hardly has sales

since the price already so low

usually less than $20 a pair

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for those who are not familiar with Ripples

it is a specialist in flip flop

Singaporean brand

so it’s considered a quite affordable brand

compared to Havaianas, or

my fav QuikSilver / Roxy

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went to Science Foyer

Saw the price banner $ 9.90

oh, sounded quite ok

let’s go take a look

wow, can’t believe it

it’s $9.90 for 2 pairs

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so we just went around searching and searching

actually I am not a great fan of flipflops

especially those very very light one

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I am quite a clumsy person

wearing those light flipflops

there will be a risk of tripping over

or other embarrassing accidents

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among all the light flipflops

found this one, it’s cloth-texture

looks very nice

stripe-motif, one of my favourite

Ripples

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planned to get 2 pairs

but the pink one

it’s a lil’ bit faded

so finally shared with Abi

each person 1 pair

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now I kinda regretted la

a lil bit of colour faded

wearing on foot,

who will notice wor

should have get 2 pairs!!!

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but never mind,

it’s ok

sharing great bargains with friend

it’s a good deed

don’t you think so

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even the Shopaholic’s book 4

is titled “Shopaholic and sister”

I am just about to start reading it

maybe it’s about Becky shopping with Suze

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as the old saying goes, sharing is caring

but on the other hand,

I can buy another pair or two

to share with my sis,

sharing is caring.

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Erm, I plan to go again tomorrow

I want to go again..

but still got meh?

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such a great deal

saw a guy phoning his gf or whoever

buying on behalf of her

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I discover shopping is contentious

I will never stop at one item

walked about

and…

saw a stall

all items for $10

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I like the flowery pattern dress

and another girl was buying quite a lot

she said buy for her friend

must be have bought from here before

a returning satisfied customer

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and the salesperson said

today is the last day she is doing business here

went through the dresses

found this plain one

not bad

it is quite elegant

b&w dressbackview

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and this dress is for SOS purpose

who knows suddenly

someone asks me out for a concert

or a dinner at a high-street restaurant

(dreaming……)

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I am so like Becky now

finding excuses for shopping

rationalize my own crime

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then wandered to another stall

selling t-shirt

hand-painted shirt

so lovely

and some promo items

3 for $10

those normal normal T-shirts

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but i kept to my vow

of not buying plain-T anymore

luckily can kept to my vow

recalling those tees i have home

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I love in-campus shopping

great bargain

some variety

with companion

familiar environment

without travelling

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Tuesday, March 17, 2009

尋戲記

最近的連續劇

本來興致勃勃要看學警狙擊

前面那兩集我都有追

很喜歡鐘立文了

但是看了一集

就覺得很沒有興趣要追了

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我也不懂為什麼

最近看劇都半途而廢

我最後最後看完整的劇

應該是《溏心風暴》

不是《家好月圓》 是大鮑細鮑那個哦

《家好月圓》看了十多集 宣告放棄

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之前也是有期待《珠光寶氣 》

但是看到二十集

也沒有再追下去了

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原因可能如下

時間很緊逼

沒有同伴一起追劇的那種樂趣了

生活壓力已經很大了

對這種打打殺殺的劇情反感

現在連續劇從Youtube下載

來得容易 反而不珍惜了

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但是過後反而看了《大冬瓜》

覺得不錯

雖然不是我首選的cast

不過劇情蠻幽默的

老實講我很久沒有看TVB的古裝劇了

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例如那些《搜神傳》 和《少年四大名捕》

我覺得應用科技太過火了

很假的感覺

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雖然現在什么高清加3D

卻不及當年的感動和歡笑

懷念起一些以前的古裝喜劇

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昨天才找到看了一集《金玉滿堂》

劇情很深刻

還有上個拜六看了《男親女愛》

還有回到那種人人都在追《西遊記》的年代

呦(Yo)!取西經!使乜驚呀!

天天流口水的豬八戒

蜘蛛精 

白骨精

牛魔王

還有那個很好笑的雞精

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還有另外一點

為什麼我會想念這些劇

是因為一家人一起看劇的感覺

和在宿舍一個人看

真的很不同

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尤其是我爸爸很少看港劇

這幾部是他少有看的

我懷念的…

金玉满堂九五至尊 

西游記 男親女愛

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Saturday, March 14, 2009

Turning to Self-Cooking

Introducing my Rice Cooker, Ms. Elle

Ms. Elle

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Her Biodata

-Power: 750W

-Capacity: 1.8 L

-With Tempered Glass Lid

-Auto Cooking & Keep Warm Function

-1.2mm thickness Non Stick black colour Inner Pot

-Aluminium Steam Tray

-Dimension (cm): 27.5 (L) x 27.5 (W) x 28.0 (H)

-Gross Weight: 2.82 kg

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1st time working with Ms. Elle

homemade organic mantou

with wolfberries and raisins and etc

one day i gonna learn how to make my own too

steamingMan-tou 

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2nd day, barley tong sui

but no sui (water)… 

and i didn’t put in tong (sugar) too

so let’s just call this boiled barley

attempt again on the 3rd day

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but my mama said cannot eat this every day

so stopped cooking it again for the time being

actually I am not a great fan of

chinese barley

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but i discover if it is well-cooked

it can taste nice too

not forgetting the nutrition values

in each and every spoon of this barley

chinese barley

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today, boiling.. boiling

bubbles boiling

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it’s done….

my rice….

i never know it will form such a lovely

symmetry pattern

 almost dried...

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what I ate with my rice…

chicken floss and roasted ikan bilis

rice has never tasted that nice, soft and warm before

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apart from this is my own d.i.y creation

it’s because I soaked the rice

for the whole day since 8am

each piece of rice is penetrated with softness

i love cooking

 rice + chicken floss + anchovies

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am i not brilliant?

the rice is just sufficient

to fill up my mug

these are the supplies I got…

my ingredients

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later when i am cooking on daily basis

will go shopping each week for fresh supplies

rule # 2 of self-revaluation

thank you, ms. elle

thank you, mom

thank you, those cooking blogs i have consulted

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Thursday, March 12, 2009

A Summerlicious Perfume

like yesterday

finished class at science

passed by the perfume booth

60% off

then Abi suggested

let’s go and have a look

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that’s the trap

once I take a look

then i doubt i will leave empty-handed

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not bad.. lots of brands for sales

called up my sis

cause i saw the Moschino and Versace one

she has been using

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i know it’s kinda bad to phone up her

talking about perfume

she is still “mourning”

but that’s what a sister for right…

shopping network

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so she said just pick any for her

she trusted my taste

got one Versace Baby Rose Jeans 1.7oz for her

she said that one was ok

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the other one Versace Red Jeans

I was tempted to buy

cause it’s very cheap

2.5oz for $ 25

the Baby Rose is  $ 20

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actually they are more or less the same

but Red Jeans is 82% and Baby Rose is 75%

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i been smelling too much of perfume

that i couldn’t differentiate

which is which

now i am kinda confused..

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whether i am getting these for my sis

or for myself…

a good question to ponder upon

ok she can take 1 back to her house

another one leave it at home

and we shall share…

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erm, I like this too

just that the design is not too

fancy looking

it is really refreshing

but it costs $ 55

next time perhaps

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this is what i was always targeting for

but i didn’t see it there

deliciously fruity

   

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i noticed lots of Paris Hilton collection there

obviously it is not selling so well

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well officially annoucement

I am penetrating into a new market

for shopping….

welcome to the world of perfume

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some words of caution

I remember my Chemistry teacher,

Ms Lim said

perfume is actually very cheap ester

so they are just made expensive

by packaging and adverts

so beware

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Wednesday, March 11, 2009

A Summerlicious Dress

today finished econs tutorial…

walking with Chong Hui towards the library

as usual, there were lots of booth selling stuffs there

but i wasn’t really attracted to them

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a lady was displaying some clothes

then Chong Hui said,

Hey, a white top

i need it for my dance

then the lady said this is only for $2

second-hand clothes

there were some new clothes as well

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so she picked out 3 tops and 1 pants

and tried it at the toilet

i waited for her lo

and she kept asking me

are you sure you don’t want to buy anything

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thinking…

erm… $ 5 for a pair of pants

not bad what

so i decided to get a pair of pants too

hers is pink, mine is blue

my 1st 2ndhand 

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then i spotted this dress Chong Hui was holding just now

it is fancy-looking

it only costs $15,

it’s not second hand

not bad i think

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it’s better than i go get a Roxy one

so i decided to grab it as well

after trying …. in the toilet

it's so summer

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the back view

nice ribbon

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we ended up walking happily to the library

with shopping bags

it’s a greenbag

from a fashion label @ Orchard Road

I thought I gonna end up with

black gross-looking rubbish bag.. lol

what do you expect from a stall

0275 

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however this is a trap

that means next time

i will pay more attention

to those booth

which are available almost everyday

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yesterday just talked about

self-evaluation vs self-improvement

today i was shopping

but however I was shopping wisely

that’s the point

i have come to accept 2nd hand clothes

i have bought a $15 dress instead of Roxy

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anyway…

life is great when you get to shop

but do remember to shop wisely

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p.s.

to Xiao Hua

you said you are not bothered about what I bought

but how much i have spent

I have spent $20 only…

haha

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Tuesday, March 10, 2009

自我估值 vs 增值

那天星期六要回家的時候

早上六點多吧

聽到《西崎公園》

Jessie的《一千零一夜》

她講了一個讓我停下來想想的故事

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從前有一個女子

她有很好的家庭背景

樣貌 經濟 一切 都很不錯

她的愛好就是扮美美和 shopping

還有扮高傲

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有一次她愛上了一個男孩

她心裡想

我要有矜持

我條件那麼好

那個男生一定會看上我的

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但是一天一天過去了

那個男生並沒有看上他

她看見那個男生每次和一個樣貌平凡的

女生在一起 有說有笑

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她看了又生氣又妒忌

心想這個女生的條件

樣樣都不比她強

為什麼那個男生又會看上她呢

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她很生氣

就每天不斷繼續打扮 shopping

希望一天那個男生能看上她

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這就是自我估值和自我增值的區分了

自我估值者:提高自己的地位 要高高在上

自我增值者:不斷學習 不斷和四週的人交朋友

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女孩們

停下來 想想

你是哪一類型呢?

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找到這篇蠻好的文章 

《女人自我增值的22種訣竅 》   

《時尚生活》life.icxo.com

(日期:2005-10-25 14:47)

要真正做一個成功的女性,在兼顧內外之余,少不了會碰上情緒不佳之時,這裡爲你提供享受生活的秘方。幫你天天輕松自在,做事更加得心應手。

希望你不要放過身邊唾手可得的快樂催化劑。現今的女性,往往身兼多職,扮演著好太太,好媽媽,好員工,好上司,此外也是好女兒,好媳婦種種不同的角色。

雖然如此,一樣也難不倒你們,在忙得不可開交之際,卻還不忘進修,提升競爭力,多樣角色都兼固周到,如果少點毅力和耐力還真沒辦法勝任。

另外,作爲女性,除了經常學習武裝自己之外,亦更加不能不懂得打扮,經常保持最佳狀態見人,要做個成功女性,內外兼固才算完美。因此花點心思,把自己打扮得體,可算是自我增值的一種最簡捷方法。

1.快樂記事薄:養成每天寫日記的習慣,記下每天的快樂心情,使你快樂的人物和地點,心血來潮時就拿出來重溫快樂時光,(日日是好日,年年是好年。)留住生活中美好的時光,千萬不要將不愉快的情緒留到明天。

2.到超市購物:試試每逢星期天,就到超市大肆采購一番,將冰箱裝得滿滿的,以富足快樂的心情,迎接每個星期的第一天。

3.計劃一星期的打扮:用相機拍下自己擁有的每一雙鞋子的(長相),貼在鞋盒的顯眼處,並于星期天安排好下個星期的服飾搭配,如此就不需要每天一早起床,爲當天要穿哪件衣服而傷腦筋,省下來的時間就可以不慌不忙地享用美味的早餐,或花些時間做臉部按摩運動了。

4.善用數字感:習慣數字帶給你的興奮,利用數字帶來的推動力讓自己慢慢進步,就算今天比昨天只多做了一、兩下的仰臥起坐,也能帶給你小小的快樂及成就感,畢竟一想到今天的我將會比昨天更接近KEEP FIT的目標,那種快樂是無法形容的。

5.找尋最新資訊:每日利用一小時的時間,打開電腦浏覽喜歡的網站,在你吸取無邊的知識之余,又可享受比別人早一步發現新知的樂趣。

6.日行一善:不論是扶老婆婆過馬路,在公司裡幫同事們一點點小忙,或是在辦公室制造歡樂氣氛,都算是好事,這會使你一整天都擁有一個快樂的好心情。

7.善于利用時間:試著不要在固定時間守在電視機前,不妨將你喜歡的節目預錄下來,有空的時候再播出來看,享受那趕走廣告的駕馭感,畢竟新時代的女性,有需要成爲一位時間管理專家,才能讓你感受到有效率善用時間的樂趣。

8.不同主題的日子:依照你喜歡的方式,爲自己精心計劃一星期的特定日子,譬如是打球日、逛街日、約會日、睡覺日、學習日、積極快樂地享受每一天。

9.在家尋寶:你一定有過有時發現家中某種東西不翼而飛,但日子久了也就不了了之,然後無意間在一次的打掃中它突然出現在你眼前,那種在家尋寶失而複得的心情真的很開心。而且定期清理舊東西,讓家裡窗明幾淨,空氣流通,也有除舊迎新增加能量的功效。有時也會有不大不小的意外的收獲。

10.夢想剪貼圖:專家說過,沒有設定目標的人,就永遠到達不到目標。將你的理想、目標視覺化,以圖片的方式,剪貼在大卡紙上,有空就拿出來欣賞,圖片看多了,可以刺激我們努力的去達成某個目標,讓你早日享受夢想成真的滿足感

11.偶爾節制一下:你一定很懷念小時候等待過年的興奮心情,因爲只有在過年時才有足夠的壓歲錢,可以買心中很想擁有的東西。長大後的我們可以隨時買到自己需要的東西,可以已經完全不懂得珍惜自己身邊擁有的,也忘了什麽叫得來不易,不妨訓練自己在發薪水的那個星期才購物,平常的日子便感受一下節制的樂趣,找回那份童年的回憶。

12.早起的樂趣:找一天一大清早起床,感覺一下(衆人皆睡我獨醒)的優越感,早睡早起,頭腦清醒精神爽,心情自然也會快樂舒暢。試著培養早起一小時的好習慣,你不但會多了寶貴的甯靜時間及充裕的精力,你也一定會愛上那早晨恬靜清新的感受。

13.儲蓄樂:買個漂亮的小豬錢箱放在你的辦公室桌上,作爲你旅遊、買大衣或做善事的基金,每天喂它一次,會帶給你細水長流的快樂。

14.養只小寵物:爲自己買棵小盆栽或養個小動物,它會使你心情愉快,而在你的悉心照顧下,看著它一天一天的長大,你一定會體會到經過付出而獲得收獲的快樂。

15.自我增值:定期上不同且對自己有益的興趣班和訓練課程,體驗一下不同領域帶來的學習樂趣和成就感,只要忙得充實有意義,你的每一種興趣也會帶給你不同程度的成就感。

16.經常保持愉快的心境: 女爲悅己者容,每天花一小時的時間寵愛自己,投資在自己身上是應該的。每星期定好養顔滋補的時間表,吃燕窩、補品、維他命丸,做面膜……讓自己隨時都保持在最佳狀態,眼看著自己一天比一天迷人,怎能不叫你心花怒放,但是別忘了,再怎樣地善待自己,最重要的還是經常保持著愉快的心境,才能收到事半功倍的美容效果。

17.享受天倫樂:家人永遠是你最重要的精神支柱,好好珍惜及培養和他們的關系,定期爲自己安排喜歡的家庭活動,有了家人親切的支持,做起事來都必定更加起勁。不跟父母同住的朋友們,平日雖然不能常抽空見他們,下班後可別忘了打個電話問候他們。

18.享受音樂:辛苦工作後,利用短暫的休息時間,聽聽自己喜歡的音樂,好好地獎賞自己一番,陶醉在優美的音樂旋律中,就算是只有短短的十分鍾時間,也能幫你松弛疲勞,帶給你不可思議的美妙感受。

19.休假的藝術:在不用上班的日子裡,你也可以過得既浪漫又有效率,如果不想讓假日空白,平時就應該做好休假的規劃,利用周末的時間,做你平日想做又一直沒有時間做的事,讓自己過一個價值又豐盛的周末。

20.想像快樂:人類的潛能是非常奇妙的,好好運用我們的第六感和意志力,樂觀進取地想著經過努力後所帶來成功的美好情景,讓自己經常有著正面的思想,他會在不知不覺中使你越來越接近成功。

21.愛情的魔力:經常跟愛侶分享生活上的喜悅、生活中的點點滴滴,在對方沮喪或不開心時給予適當的慰籍與關懷,不但能使彼此之間的愛情更加滋養,更可激勵我們不斷向上。

22.不要忘記快樂:樂觀的人容易遇上有趣的事,如果你常常不開心,可能你已忘了快樂的節奏感。只要你常到使你快樂的地方,再花點心思,留意周圍的事物,你不難發現一些令人開心的事物,其實快樂是無處不在的,只是一直被我們忽略了!你一定聽說過,笑口常開的人比較容易青春常駐,想要長春不老,就別忘了一定要常保持樂觀進取的態度,積極快樂地過每一天。 

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今日 Playlist:

夠不夠 / 方大同

為何 / 古巨基

姿色份子 / 謝安琪

塑膠玫瑰 / 謝安琪

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Monday, March 9, 2009

The Missing Phantom Shopper

1.50 pm about to leave library to go for tutorial

as usual go to toilet first

went down the staircase

left my bag at the corner

i hate bringing bag into toilet

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5 mins later i came out

OMG my bag was gone

then i went down the staircase and searched

that is a dead-end

so basically people who walked past here

are only girls who are using the toilet

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not around

began to get panic

went up, saw a girl there

asked her, she got no idea

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then wandered around

in the midth of the book shelves

i found…

that's her, my Phantom Shopper 

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at a corner

that was my sweater on the floor

obviously someone had ransacked my bag

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but to my surprise

my stuff are all still intact

my phone, my PDA

maybe they are too out-dated

not worth stealing

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my purse?

then i remembered

oh today i forgot to bring my purse out

what a close shave

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the incident is just too strange

to happen on me

i analyzed the whole thing

still couldn’t find a right explanation

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Could it be

- a thief

- a stalker    

- a mischief-maker

- karma because I always hid others’ thing 

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pretty lucky that nothing has gone missing

but i really don’t feel like carrying my bag

into the toilet

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i’ll still put my bag outside

but shorten the time

I spent in front of the mirror

and zip up my bag all the time

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Friday, March 6, 2009

Khalil’s Live Crossovers

Live High /  Khalil Fong X Jason Mraz

Jason Mraz live in HK / 2009.03.02

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夠不夠 / 方大同 X 蕭敬騰 

蕭敬騰同名專輯新歌發佈會 / 2008.07.06

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It Might You / 方大同 X 王若琳 

勁歌金曲 / 2009.02.14

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How Deep Is Your Love / Khalil Fong  X Soler

勁歌金曲 / 2009.02.14

  

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My Heart Will Go On / 方大同 X 謝安琪

未来演唱会Wonderland Live 2008 / 2008.03.30

If I Ain’t Got You / 方大同 X 謝安琪

未来演唱会Wonderland Live 2008 / 2008.03.30

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Somewhere Over the Rainbow / 方大同 X 盧廣仲  

Dream a Little Dream/ 方大同 X 盧廣仲

雲妮鍾情盧廣仲對啊!對啊!All Day Breakfast party / 2008.10.11

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As Time Goes by 春風吹 安靜 / 方大同 X 薛凱琪

薛凱琪加州紅903 811熱火樂團演唱會 / 2005.08.11

Thursday, March 5, 2009

Lay Down, Breath, Run

something is stressing me up

feel like escaping from here then

i will start analysing

what are the issues bothering me

list them out then

find solutions one by one

then at the end of the day i'll be fine

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sometimes just croon some simple tune

I think I like this song

《不呼不吸幾多秒 》/ Fiona Sit

Like its rhyme

and it’s again

composed by Khalil

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I don’t hate Fiona actually

I just don’t want her to be Khalil’s gf

that’s all

they can continue to collaborate

as much as they want to

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if really can't find solution

lie on the bed and

do what i am always good at

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- a hot drink

- some munchable snack

- an ebook

- some music    

- then have a decent nap

life is brighter after that

last strategy…

run home….

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Playlist of the Day:

不呼不吸幾多秒 / 薛凱琪

最後只好躺下來 / 黃力行

RunAway / 陶吉吉

拍膊頭 / 軟硬天師

Wow / 郭偉亮

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Sunday, March 1, 2009

Underneath My Skin

a lazy morning don't feel like doing anything

time for some reflections

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in the morning, Jessie @ 903

discussed how true we are to ourselves

try to wrap up what i have absorbed

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---90 percent of people out there

do not enjoy what they are doing now

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we are not always true to ourselves

our actions are always influenced by

- parents

- money

- time constraint

- social stigma and norm

- people around you

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we wear a mask around

wearing the mask, I lose myself

removing the mask, I lose you

(quote from  a book)

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what do you want to achieve in life?

earn loads money

hence, we become the slaves of money

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back to myself

hanging around here

I am not even doing what I like

I don’t quite like Econs

at this point of time

especially statistics

but I don’t have a choice now

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still happily surfing college websites

looking for LLB programs offered

ok, 7 years down the road

I shall give myself a second alternative

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but maybe i have already

wasted my youth away

doing things I don’t really like

and struggle along the way

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I don’t know how

changing major is an option

but what to major in?

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can easily choose another major

but once again

- how is the job prospect

- how would it worry your parents

- how would the others view you

- how much time can you afford to waste

- how much money you are throwing away

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here is a tentative plan

- I work hard to finish off my 3 years + here

- get a job to pay off my loan and serve my bond

- then save enough money to do a LLB degree

- go UK to finish off this degree

- I wanna go back home

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but time is the factor

by the time i finish step 2

i am most probably 27 to 28 already

provided that i can clear the 50k loan

provided that i can find a job

so the possibility of carrying out this plan

is almost nil 

False hope = No hope

what would I want to entertain myself

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underneath my skin 

there is my heart

i can heart it is beating

but it doesn’t have its own rhyme anymore

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it is just surviving

for the sake of surviving

I am doing things

for the sake of doing

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