Friday, May 10, 2024

2024/05/10: 勒緊

四月底 生日月

也陸續收到一些生日優惠

難免有些「犒賞自己」的誘惑

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但是想想

四月也看了兩場演出

也再買了六月的另一場票

這樣也差不多了吧

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還真是幸好沒有衝動購物

到了五月五的促銷

也還是買了不少

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小朋友的運動用品

兩老的健步鞋

屈臣氏日用品

食品雜貨、貓糧

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小孩最近參加了新項目

還沒開始掌握 就一直出錢

老人的鞋子 還是那一句 省不得

而且發現 之前買的 Keen

好像平常不捨得拿出來穿

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可惡 Allie 防曬

沒給我史努比特別版

還是 2022 產的舊貨?

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月底買貓糧有時好像接不上

貓糧其實也有在漲價

之前是混兩個品牌

現在既然差不多

就直接買比較好的

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臭貓最近挑食

只因爲她找到了一個後花園

去隔壁家吃給浪浪準備的飯菜吃香喝辣!!!

氣炸了  但能怎樣?

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印尼姐姐煮的飯菜確實很香

我在後門偶爾聞到辣椒的味道

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連被喂飽的浪浪也挑食

水煮肉 如果不混海鮮味餐包

兩隻臭貓都不愛

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所以還是在早點買比較好

美祿咖啡 據説接下來會漲一波

還是多買了一些

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這樣下來

這個月的網購

應該可以見好就收了

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別再跟我説什麽

月底發薪日 犒勞一下自己吧

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剛把首 4 個月的支出開銷

整理出來

還是有點驚訝

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5 還沒過完之前

還有一些大額支出

爬過去以後

就必須勒緊褲頭過日子

才能把之前的驚人數目按下來

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犒賞自己 還是想想就好了

但一年可以看個四、五場演出

去看演出的時候還住得挺好

知足了吧

不要當被蝙蝠俠打巴掌的羅賓

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Tuesday, May 7, 2024

2024/05/07: 呷飯

今天送走了家族里的一位長輩

聽說對一個人的聲音、樣子的記憶

會隨著時間消失

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那通過食物的連結

就比較深刻

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記得過年去長輩家

當時臥病在床

給兩老點了外賣

是肉燥飯和蚵仔麵線

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當時還是可以吞嚥食物的

還吃完了

但也沒有下次了

點外賣的機會

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還有一次

他們上我們家

也是春節

他們是極少數有

上過我們新居的長輩

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也沒什麼好招待

也是點了外賣

是熱炒 炒飯 炒麵之類的

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總覺得

能留住長輩在家吃飯

或著請長輩吃頓飯

也是一種福氣

人走後 更覺得如此

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從火化場回來

喪家準備了自助午餐

大家都餓了

也不顧神主牌還沒安好

就在屋外開始吃起來

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話說回來

這家外燴的食物確實不錯

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算是一場體面的告別式

長輩 可以放心去繼續

下一段旅途了

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道別時

感覺少了個人還沒講拜拜

這個家的大家長

已經被定格在祭拜桌上的照片裡了

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Wednesday, May 1, 2024

2024/05/01: April

Took two weekend off in April

for live show + staycation in the city

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the first trip, solo,

departed later than planned

got myself stuck in heavy traffic

resulted in late check-in and

arriving late at the concert venue

not forgetting the late dinner after 1am

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but spent a well-rested day in the Airbnb

with a pretty good view from the balcony

so it was just concert + Airbnb

before heading back

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the second trip,

travelled much more relaxedly

by making it earlier

with the comfort of being hosted by an old friend

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we did so much in a day

brunch at café, attending a Raya open-house before the show

catching some football while having supper at Mamak

and watching the recent talk-about K-drama

all the way until 3am

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which really felt like

going back to the college days

but back then I known as an early bird

and only got dragged out when the gang

came knocking on my door

and back then we don’t even have Netflix

(relying on illegal resource and slow connection)

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couldn’t be more impressed by

how my friend was all set for work

in front of the laptop at 8:30am

that seamless transition

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while I slept through the 2 hour journey back

at the back of my mind

thinking about how I could

make up the time  

to catch up on errands and work left behind

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having got used to a pretty routine

for the past 3 years? post-2020

it will take some time to adapt

the uncertainties, rushes, changes

that tag along with travel

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2024/05/01: March

March was quite a month

supposedly

marking the end of “New Year” 

giving an actual idea of how Q1,

and ultimately the year will go

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was supposed to attend the first live show

on the first day of the month

which got cancelled last minute

reason unknown

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but it turned out to be quite a fruitful month

spending  over a week

following the Baishatun Mazu Pilgrimage

looking out for the new stray outside

clearing the drain outside

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the best part of all

i got myself a new pair of earbuds

simply because one of them

from the old pair

fell into the drain covered in mud

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oh no

i couldn’t remember much about work

i suppose that happens 

when i start caring less about total sales

but putting focus on every single task done

one at a time

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