找個
像一棵大樹的男友
像大樹一樣
魁梧結實
卻從不張揚
像大樹一樣
夏天的時候 帶來好多涼快感
像大樹一樣
冬天的時候 有種冷冷威嚴
卻帶有安全感
像大樹一樣
We could build a tree house
As our secret hide out
像大樹一樣
已經扎根在這片土地
無論神麼事
都不離不棄
像大樹一樣
我不開心的時候
能對它放聲大喊
像大樹一樣
我很不開心的時候
可以摘下一片綠葉擦眼淚
像大樹一樣
喜歡倚偎在它懷裡
看最喜歡的《花生漫畫》
像大樹一樣
把我告訴它的秘密
當作自己的秘密守好
何必這麼麻煩找
既然大樹這麼好
就要它做男友好了
也對
人始終靠不住
還不如喜歡一棵大樹
Cool?
their print ad are
simply awesome
But still
Not too sure about
Getting the watch
Yet the temptation is
Running high
When Shawn was directing the MV 《人非草木》
For Kary last Oct
I actually discussed with Mag Mag
They should be together
And I even googled for Kary bf
To find out that there is this
"Prince of Tennis" guy
With whom she was spending
A beach vacation with
In Malaysia
Okay fine
Shawn has to work harder then
And I kept insisting that
If Shawn and Eddie still
Couldn't find respective GFs
Then they should be together
Lol Mag did not like the idea
Because unlike me
she is a fan of Ed
But not both Shawnie & Eddie
Until this news came into being
Oh my I did not know
Until the comment fights on Instagram
There are pro Kary and anti Kary
And some are neutral
I am in the middle of
Neutral and pro Kary
Because I like her too
Her style, her song and her subtle-ness
And I have been following her
Since the era of Cookies, Ping Pung
And Kary X Hardpack
Also, her first movie character in
Love at Fist Note with Justin Lo
Loads love and best wishes
No matter how true and how reliable
the news are
Media well media
You see
they actually cropped photos
From the past
To make the photos look as if
It's just Shawn and Kary
And the funny thing is
He uploaded a photo of Statute
I think it's London downtown
Near Marble Arch
Probably because
there are many comments
Of Him and Kary
Since there is coverage of
People bumping into them at Heathrow
And hours later
he deleted the photos away
The comments were way too scary
Elevated into issue about
Identity issue of HK vs mainland etc etc
Oh my
But since it auto feed to FB
It's still around on FB
taken from Zen Habits
to celebrate my two courageous refusals today
Why We Find It Hard To Say “No”
You want to help where possible, even if it may eat into your time.
Afraid of being rude, especially to people who are more senior, is rude.
Wanting to be agreeable, don’t want to alienate yourself from the group
Fear of conflict, might lead to an ugly confrontation.
Fear of lost opportunities, is worried saying no means closing doors.
Not burning bridges, might lead to bridges being burned and relationships severed.
At the end of the day, it’s about how you say “no”,
rather than the fact you’re saying no,
that affects the outcome.
7 Simple Ways To Say “No”
| | “I can’t commit to this as I have other priorities at the moment.” |
| | “Now’s not a good time as I’m in the middle of _. How about we reconnect at X time?” |
| | “I’d love to do this, but …” |
| | “Let me think about it first and I’ll get back to you.” |
| | “This doesn’t meet my needs now but I’ll be sure to keep you in mind.” |
| | “I’m not the best person to help on this. Why don’t you try X?” |
| | “No, I can’t.” |
After all, you have your own priorities and needs,
just like everyone has his/her own needs.
Saying no is about respecting and valuing
your time and space.
Say no is your prerogative.
We have this tradition
On the day two of Lunar New Year
We would go loitering at mall
Contrasting the busy period
Before New Year
Plus the peak during day one
There we were sitting on a bench
Scooping ice cream and
Chattering
At the outdoor yard
Then dad suggested to
Move over to the other bench
Because the lights were kinda bright
Not exactly that "romantic" for us
let's move
There I was walking across
And settled myself down
With our tube of ice cream
Then there he came walking
Melvin Lim
Proudly announce
I bumped into Melvin Lim
I did not stalk him
Walking exceptionally slow
Outside his work place
He must have come from a
Puffing session
It isn't look that great
To bump into your "teenage dream"
hugging a tube of ice cream
With perhaps trace of choc
Around the lips
6 years..
He may be married with children already
Depressssssssing
Stalking is something I do the best
Let it be digital or physical
Bumped into this guy
Few weeks back
He was wearing a check
In red or green
Can't exactly remember
Not my first choice of colour
But he still looked quite good
And he was reading a book
My, you don't see much guys or girls
Reading a book while waiting for bus
He must either be a backpacker
Or old gentleman
But he is neither.. Nor
And still reading a book
A solid book, not ebook on device
I was almost hoping
He was supposed to board the same bus
No he did not
He left for the same destination
15 minutes earlier
It's okay
At least I found out
We may be coming
from the same place
Friday night
Expected a fully seated bus
Given the long weekend
But the seat beside me was
Actually empty
And best of all
There he was
Sitting right across
Somehow I am pretty sure
It's the same boy
I actually had some good time
Observing him
Neither was he on earphone
Nor playing games or browsing SNS
He was browsing something full of word
Email or news feed
I mean news feed literally NEWS
Not the one on your Facebook
Caught a good glimpse
Since I was right behind him in the queue
While alighting the bus
What watch he wore
What kind of clothes material
Which finger does he wear a ring
I googled for it
The finger in between thumb and middle
It means singlehood
Hahaha
That's the best conclusion of the mission
The only flaw I found
How come he is using a S phone
Instead of an I
I named all the boys I stalked after
something they wear or do
Let's name him Mr. Read
Somehow stalking gives a
Sense of satisfaction
Which I am addicted to
May have looked at your target
For hours for days and even years
From head to toe
and he doesn't even know if
You exist
That kind of "inequality"
And imbalance power of knowledge
Was kinda fun
I even have his photo
Blekkkkk
Day one of lunar new year
As usual, took out the first shirt I found
From the cartoon tee drawer
Because mom was saying
The tank top I am wearing is kinda
Inappropriate, given that
My house will be flooded with folks
Whatever it is
Not even bothered to
change into contact lens
Come on it's a Sunday
Lunar new year is kinda significant to me
Because it's actually
The day I mopped the floor the most
Throughout the year
Five rounds at least
After every group of folk left
Because the floor got sticky
And it's still sticky after the five rounds
And my mom is the last few
Who insists on serving home beverage
In glasses, and also home made dessert
So can imagine the piles to clear
Meet my new found friend
But can't use it for day one, still
Respecting the old tradition of
Keeping the broom away
A cordless vacuum cleaner
And can be detached to be a
Really portable hand piece
For the door railing
I am not able to clean for ages
Dad woke me up from nap after 8
I was like startled from a long dream
"huh time to go work??"
Time to mop the floor another round
Before I can resume some
Interacting with my new toy again
Tomorrow
Don't you think that
His colour
is way too "Iron-man"
A couple was about to alight
From the bus
The guy took out a white shirt
From his bag
Running in the rain
He used the shirt to
Shelter his gf from the rain
That's so sweet, to me
Even if they have to take bus
Every single day
Looking at my no longer white canvas
I finally understand why
I am always cursing at rain
And there is no way
I can link rain with romance
It's alright
I can hold my own umbrella
And find my way home in three hours time
我知道一天用五個小時上下班是
一件很荒謬的事情
但你也不用四處告訴他人，
再用＂癡線＂來形容我，
而且是當著我的面
并且在這裡補充一下
我不是你口裡覺得說得好滑稽的
她六點鐘起床，
不不不
這樣我會遲到的
是五點起身，六點出門，懂了吧
我知道你們農曆新年，
不需要這麼早回公司開工，好不快活，
但你也不用說：
如果我在家沒事幹，我會回來陪你的
我知道你從來沒有乘搭過公交，
更不用說是長途公車，
你也不用無知到拿著我的車票看著說：
how does it actually work
No worries if I know there are people who
do not even know how to
buy a bus ticket and later board the right bus,
I would volunteer myself to
create such a page on How Stuff Works
我知道你不太喜歡自己的上司
但可以教教我你是怎麼做到
和她很老友很machi的模樣
我知道你們今天很空閒 空得喊悶
但也不須要這麼張揚
我真的很不想注意力被打斷
我的工作一直做不完
是我工作效率低
是我長得惹人欺負的樣子
是我不懂得討好上司
是我死倔強甚麼都自認能勝任
是我賤愛幫別人去做他們的工作
冒雨去送貨，整理倉庫，
還有那些翻譯工作
根本就是中文部的工作嘛
連那個也要我去插一手
不怪得可以喊太得空
所以最後別人在喊悶
別人農曆新年放假去的時候
就是我自作自受的時候
祝假期快樂
就算在家沒東西幹
也千萬別回來探望我
我真的真的
沒有這麼多時間
取悅大眾
我知道我知道
我什麼都知道
雖然我沒有說
我干嘛還這么火呢？
因為我真的以為
自己在那個大環境里
很幸運找到一個
可以稱為朋友的同事
可以共患難可以訴苦
可以分享些些自己的事
被上司“善用”
本來是很正常的事
沒有什么好生氣
長命功夫 長命做
但被朋友出賣那種感覺
就根本是兩回事
是我自己判斷能力有問題
我終于才知道
#1 - 別把同事當朋友
是不變的golden rule
加油吧 孩子
路還很長遠
比五小時更荒謬的事
還多著呢
last week’s marketing survey
yes i did post something like this last week
thanks Boss for the UT X Peanuts/Snoopy tee
but this wasn’t in conjunction with
Lunar New Year
these are the items on my hunting list for ages
tribal print dress
and it avoids the danger of
looking too “pajama”-like
with the combination of the tight-black
and best of all
i found at least 4 ways of converting the dress
into a tuck-in top or cropped tribal
luck could be something so
tracking another chambray dress for months
and when i finally decided to buy
it was long gone
and this one
while passing by
i was randomly telling Cheryl
the day before i was here,
waiting for Manager’s mummy to try out
those Hush Puppies’ polo tees
and there it is
chambray dress, last piece, 70% off
how come I did not see it
the day before
while that’s the thing with hanging out with Manager
keep the eyes straight, not eyeing for anything at all
so here you go
failed to convince Cheryl to
buy the identical tribal
she was stuck with the polka dots still
speaking of that, polka dots
previous trip, two weeks ago
More KIV X Insider's Tip: First of 2013
i mentioned how the sale lady was so gracious
of reserving an item for her
so that she can buy it
when the sale period started
and she even promise that
they would order new stock
so that Cheryl could have more choices
instead of taking the last piece
which isn’t the usual size for her
and finally she was saying that
even if no new stock was coming in
this final piece would be reserved just for us
however when we returned to the store
she was like
“Oh, i did not reserve the dress for you”
“Which one is that again?”
“I lost the paper which i jotted down”
“The manager did not bring the dress down”
blah blah blah
evil Cheryl confronted her
that she was hiding in the store to avoid us
such disappointment
previous trip she was the best sale person
and now totally flopped
thank goodness
i did not put any expectation on
the blue dress that did not zip
although she promised to order new one too
because i thought the pink block was
kinda “out the blue”
and
in another sense,
any colour out-of-the-blue-range
should always be given a second thought
found him!!
while i finally got to unpack my loots just now
however
why are they calling this GENERAL BLUE
oh goodness
this is the world famous (I am just saying) chambray
or you can call it chambray blue if you like
